30 December 2018
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13 December 2018
A Phrase I Love
There is a phrase I love to use.
I use it everyday.
Many times.
It is uplifting.
It can smooth things over.
It can divert tantrums and bad attitudes.
It’s very short.
It makes people smile.
Ready?
“Good idea!”
That’s it.
Good idea.
People love to hear this. Big people. Little people. Family people. Friend people. Stranger people. All people.
It can replace other, more common and less encouraging phrases such as “Okay” or “If you say so” or “I know” or “I already thought of that.”
Maybe you did already have that idea. Does that make it less of a good idea when someone else says it first? Nope. Actually, now you probably are even more convinced of an idea’s goodness if someone else mentions it even though it was in YOUR head! You don’t have to tell them that though. You can just exclaim “good idea!” and they will feel so good. And so will you.
If someone makes any sort of suggestion. If you are inclined to agree… why not replace “Okay” with “Good idea!”. It feels so much better for everyone.
Does the grocery man want to put the bread on top of the canned food? “Good idea! Thanks!”
Does your toddler offer to share his snack with his tiny friend? “Good idea!”
I could go on and on.
But I won’t.
I’ll just say… try it! You’ll see a difference.
12 December 2018
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06 December 2018
Song
02 December 2018
28 November 2018
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15 November 2018
A Greater Age to Come (The Glory of Technology?)
Just this morning I finished reading “12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You” by Tony Reinke. Loved it so much. The author and I share values, and I really appreciated his openness even about his own struggles with technology. I also appreciated that he’s not on either ‘far side of the spectrum’ if you can draw a line between LOVE TECHNOLOGY and HATE TECHNOLOGY IT’S THE DEVIL (to put it simply). He offers thoughts and many well documented facts and argument for all sides. He acknowledges the challenges and dangers of smartphones and technology, yet he praises the advancements of man and the incredible tools that can help us tremendously as we serve our God.
He sat with John Piper, who said this (paraphrased) “ Yes, they are glowing tools made mostly by men and women who are not submitted to God… and they are tools that open up my life to a thousand convenient temptations, but used with care and discipline (emphasis mine), the digital tools are a treasure chest of the glories of God”
Mr. Reinke goes on: “For many of us, who lack this maturity, technology feeds our vanity and kills our wonder. At worst, our phones are handheld wands of power that promise to protect our sinful isolation (ouch), showcase our self-aggrandizement (translation: promoting ourselves and our importance, another ouch), prop up our digital tower of self-praise (yup), feed our materialism (totally), lure us to so-called ‘anonymous’ vices (uh-huh), and offer an ‘escape’ (yeppers) from our creaturehood.”
BUT
“When we use our smartphones rightly, their shining screens radiate with the treasure of God’s glory in Christ, and in that glory-glow, we get a sneak peek into a greater age to come.”
That’s it.
Those last words.
A GREATER AGE TO COME
This idea of many more ages to come in Eternity has been rolling around in my head for a couple years. When we look at history, we see different eras and ages… The Middle Ages, The Renaissance, the Golden Age, etc. So if there ages and eras in the past, then we must be in a some sort of ‘Age’ now that will likely be named something besides ‘The Modern Age’ many years in the future once we’re all dead (and by dead I mean alive) and gone (and by gone I mean existing in another place) waiting for Jesus to make His glorious return.
What I’m trying to say here is that as humankind, we are moving forward. We are not stagnant.
So.
Once Jesus has come back and taken some of us to Heaven for eternity, where we shall LIVE FOREVER with each other and with Him, then will the ages not continue there? It is LIFE, after all, and not just a never-ending-church-service (booooring). What does LIFE entail? You know… eating, resting, enjoying friendships and family, work, projects, occasions, celebrations, exploring, researching, learning and ANYTHING ELSE YOU CAN IMAGINE THAT DOESN’T INCLUDE SIN.
I mean, really… life is going to be full. We’re going to look back on this current life and say “ppppfffffff’, that was nuthin”. And the next life (the one that lasts forever after this one that is gone as fast as a vapor) is going to move forward, and it’s going to be exciting and purposeful and we are going to use our gifts and talents and share our lives with old friends and new friends.
And if life is moving forward, and we are continuing to work (work is worship, FYI) and if we’re going to use our gifts like those men and women that God has given amazing minds for rocket engineering and quantum physics and computer engineering… then WHY OH WHY would technology and invention STOP?
It wouldn’t.
It would MOVE FORWARD.
It would move forward in a most wonderful way. The forward motion would involve no sin and everything would truly be done for and with the glory of our creator God.
And so when the author says that “The point of scripture is that the wicked city Babylon and all of its godless machinery (he’s talking about this planet in its current state) will be uprooted and cast away (halleluiah!) to make room for God’s city, the New Jerusalem, shining with sights and technologies now unimaginable and exceeding all human ingenuity and expectation”…
… my spirit screams YYYEEESSS! This is true. God is infinitely creative and creatING (present tense). God lives in us. And we will live together forever in eternity, so PEOPLE, the ages that will come in heaven are going to be beautiful. It means we’re going to keep moving forward. Our technologies in eternal ages to come WILL bring glory to God. Their research and design and creation will be joy-filled work that is pure WORSHIP to His name.
And it’s not just technologies.
The expressions of art and music will be new and fresh time after time.
Those who love to teach are going to find new ways to pass on information with the passion God has put in them.
Writing skills are going to evolve and improve and people will find new avenues of articulation.
Those who can organize and administrate will find new ways to manage lives and information and everything else and have such joy doing that.
Buildings and structures and homes will have new shapes and ideas and constructions.
Fashions will change and evolve.
The foods that we grow and prepare and partake of will endlessly change and surprise and delight us.
I mean seriously.
I could go on and on.
It WILL go on and on.
I can’t wait.
13 November 2018
Milestone
An Old-Fashioned Moment
Reading aloud while my bigs get creative together (happily)! Sometimes our evenings have moments that feel delightfully old-fashioned, peaceful and meaningful. I’m not gonna lie. These things do not necessarily come naturally to a modern-day home and I work hard to cultivate these things in our homelife. And the more I work at it, the more naturally it happens. For that, I am thankful.
08 November 2018
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26 October 2018
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01 October 2018
Stack O' Books
25 September 2018
24 September 2018
23 September 2018
Are you thinking what I’m thinking?
Awhile ago Lil’ A and I were having a quiet moment of snuggle in bed at some point during the day. I’m guessing naptime or bedtime, but I can’t remember. I was reading and she was just resting with me.
She was lying next to me, stroking my hair. It was the sweetest thing EVER.
Then she asks me, in a dreamlike voice…
“Are you thinking what I’m thinking?”
“Well,” I said “I’m just reading my book so I’m not sure… what are you thinking?”
She continued…
“That I’m a princess.”
Ha! It was so funny. I wasn’t, in fact, thinking about Lil’ A being a princess. But I found it SUPER adorable that she thought that was what I must be thinking!
19 September 2018
Art for Fun
I love that ‘officially’ being a homeschool Mom is a little added motivation to get out supplies and be creative! I love to create, but it often feels hard to find time to do so. But when we do, we all love it! Today it was soft pastels. We watched one youtube video on 5 techniques for using soft pastels and went for it.
One thing we were happy to learn was that it’s good to break the long sticks of chalk… we always felt bad if we broke them, but it actually makes them much more versatile. Cool!
Bumping Down the Road
The other day I was driving the children to church on a Friday morning.
As were were riding along, B says to me “Mama! Stop bumping!" Stop bumping da car!”
And then I laughed and laughed and laughed.
You see, roads here aren’t exactly smooth. Very rarely is there a stretch of road without pothole, open manhole, divit, speed bump of all shapes and sizes, remnants of trenches dug in the past or present… basically there’s always something to swerve around or bump over top of.
Mr. B apparently had enough of it. Which I can understand.
But sadly for him, there is no way around!
17 September 2018
16 September 2018
13 September 2018
12 September 2018
World Record for Tiredness
During our last week in the States, I think Lil’ A might have reached an all time world record for tiredness.
Well, at least a record for our family.
Big difference you say? World record vs. family record?
Hmmm. I see your point. Oh well, whatever.
Here’s what happened:
She had an afternoon swim. And then Mike put her in the shower to warm up and rinse off.
Then Mike went back to work on his computer.
A bit later he called out “A! Are you okay in there?”
…
…
No answer.
So he goes to check on her in the shower.
And she’s asleep, curled up in a ball on the floor of the shower.
Seriously?!
Now that’s tired.
He turned off the water to get her out and she rallied enough to tell him “No! Daddy turn the water back on!”
She apparently had no intention of ending her nap on the floor of the shower under the warm water.
Ha!
11 September 2018
09 September 2018
Changes coming to my blog
Hello Readers! Just wanted to let you know that I am making some behind the scenes changes to my blog. It may mean that it will no longer be found at www.suz-mae.com but may be found at www.suzmae.blogspot.com, as it was many years ago.
So if someday soon you come here and can’t find it, try me there!
:)
03 September 2018
02 September 2018
31 August 2018
Quote of the Day
We just returned to our home overseas after a delightful visit to the U.S. this summer.
And I have noticed that Lil’ A has started to ask me the same question a lot when she is in the car with me riding somewhere.
She asks me…
“Mommy, do you know where you are going?”
Ha!
This makes me laugh, because it’s a valid question. The places where I drive are:
1. A Mega-City with crazy roads and impossible traffic and many, many wrong turns, despite a few years of experience and my very best efforts.
or
2. My home country (America), where I don’t really live in anymore. So strangely… even in the places where I have driven for years at a time previously… I seem to forget and get lost and make wrong turns very often.
Oh my.
So I can hardly blame her for checking to make sure if I know where I’m going each time around. She just wants to know if it’s going to be a peaceful and short trip, or a longer trip with a kinda-stressed out Mommy making wrong turns!
29 August 2018
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25 August 2018
Quote of the Day
After we had done a little shopping and Lil’ A was digging through the bags in the backseat…
“Why’s there boobs in there?”
Ha! That sure cracked us up.